I don’t even know tbh
Okay. Last night I broke up with my boyfriend. Well he broke up with me. I didn't want to but he thought it was best because he wasn't mentally stable enough for a relationship, he thought he was too high maintenance for me (which wasn't true) I could've handled him well, I wanted to help and try to make him happy but he kept trying to push me away. I miss him. He checked on me twice today and I wanna check on him but idk im scared. I miss him so much. He said that we aren't going to be apart forever but when will he return to me. idk what to do anymore.
@vampniyy
So he broke up with you saying he was not stable and too high maintenance for a relationship but it might be short lived breakup and you could be back together ...... What is he doing with his new single self.... because that to me sounds like the same BS someone tried when they wanted to explore other opportunities ( girl).
I would take your time and not wait patiently but see IF this is worth waiting for .... let him know when he is "ready" you might be in another place feeling wise etc.
I don’t know.. i was just thinking that but he texted me saying he still loves me and it’s just that he can’t handle a bunch of things at once but I don’t know im just so lost.
@vampniyy
I get it it is all in the air ......... texting is not a way to have a deep discussion ....saying I love you is different then showing you how he feels.
i really do not think people find answers just thinking about it ... partnerships need team work
are you saying we should talk over call or???
@vampniyy
a call or better yet in person or video .... big conversations should be total communication and we are missing huge parts with no body language in the mix
Sometimes people outgrow each other, and that’s okay. But at other times it takes a difficult/hard time to truly realize what you have. He may end up regretting his decision and becoming better because of it.
It makes complete sense of how you’re feeling. Sadness and missing them is completely normal. I’m also going through a breakup so I can relate.
If after a while, it seems the two of you will stay broken up. You will eventually have to move on. Its too early to say for sure, and it’s to early for you to start the process of moving on.
This incident of yours has happened really recently, allow yourself some time to reflect and feel the sadness.
If on the other hand you truly think you two are meant for one another, you may want to talk to him, make sure it is known you guys are secure, and that his insecurities in the relationship aren’t what they seem.
Wishing you well.
