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User Profile: Randomperson9499
Randomperson9499 December 16th, 2024

My wife had sex with a guy pretty much that loves next door. I found out she did things with him that she says she hates doing. I’m a woman married to a woman. She says she is bisexual but honestly she is really straight and doesn’t want to admit that she is. I am not sure what to do at this point. It has caused me to not be able to sleep at night

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant December 16th, 2024

@Randomperson9499 I am so sorry that happened to you. No matter one's sexual orientation, no one deserves to be cheated on. Cheating can cause a lot of pain and hurt in the marriage. I'm sorry you are losing sleep over her actions. I hope that whatever you decide to do that it is something you are sure of. I hope that your wife realizes how hurtful her actions were. I don't know what it is that you want from her or the marriage moving forward, but all I know is that you deserve to be happy. If the marriage and her is what you want, then I hope that you are able to find true forgiveness in your heart. I hope that you and your wife are able to get help to be able to heal and overcome this. <3 If you decide it's something you don't think you are able to get over, then I still hope you are able to find true forgiveness. Holding onto pain and holding grudges can lead to resentment and bitterness. I do not want that for you. I really am wishing the best outcome for you and your marriage. Please take care and stay strong.