I don’t know
I have severe issues and so does my boyfriends he has bpd. I’m typing rn as I think this might be the end I admitted that I find other guys attractive and he said that he wished he knew before we got together and now he’s saying he’s staying cuz I told the truth but later on he might not be. This triggered my anxious attachment bro idk what to do anymore idk why I keep messing up and hurting him. I always hurt him. I feel so worthless and terrible human being. I have no one to talk to my fiends all just tell me to break but but that’s not the point. So I downloaded this app
Hoping to talk to someone. Idk what to do anymore
@unassumingTown9785
You are not worthless or bad in any way.
you spoke truth people would be better off if more people did this. Your bf has issues beyond BPD like lack of reality and maturity. a relationship does not make all other people in world look like trolls or have bad personalities. just because you may find someone attractive is irrelevant unless you were to pursue them. is your BF insecure in himself?
The "i will stay you told truth but might leave later" etc is manipulative and childish. Is he trying to make you feel bad for telling truth. Would he like it better if you were to lie or say only what he wants to hear? When we learn to lie and say things they want we lose respect for them and ourselves.
