I don't know what to do
I have a boyfriend and I've been with him for 2 years and a half already, and we're having sexual issues. We are a gay couple and since the start of the relationship I have problems being a top, I can't finish and I have problems for getting it up and maintining it, at The start it was'nt a problem because he likes to be a top more than a bottom, but now it has become an issue because he wants to have more versatile s*x and he thinks he is not attractive enough for me to have s*x, and he is the most sexy guy I ever met and a wonderful boyfriend, I just don't know what is the issue with me, yesterday we fought over the issue and we almost broke up, but we agree to find a solution. I need help, somebody knows what is my problem? I don't want to broke up with him.
@JVindel0
Hey there
From the way you talk about your partner I can tell that you love him and care about him a lot, I can understand why he might feel frustrated or question how attractive he is to you in certain moments, but with the way you talk about him. I also understand that the issue is not about how you feel about him and rather about a personal struggle for you, either related to your health or your unconscious headspace
im sorry to know you guys are having such trouble with this
have you considered reaching out for professional assistance? Perhaps a sex therapist or a physician based on what you think is more likely to be the issue
