If You Love Them, Why Do They Still Leave ?
Now you know that I’m a relationship and mental health advisor—I guide people on mental health and relationships.
Someone once asked me an interesting question. There’s a common belief that if you truly love something or genuinely desire it, the universe will bring it to you. So if we truly love someone and genuinely want them, then why do they sometimes cheat on us, betray us, or the relationship still ends?
The interesting answer is this: the universe doesn’t work the way we think it does. It doesn’t just listen to our desires. Just because you want something deeply doesn’t mean it’s right for you or meant to stay in your life.
Sometimes, what you want and what is actually right for you are two very different things. And when it comes to relationships, it’s not just about your feelings—it’s about the other person’s choices, values, and actions too.
So love alone is not enough to guarantee loyalty or a successful relationship.
@modestMango5767
Oh, that’s actually interesting. And honestly, it’s kind of nice to hear someone explain it that way. Thanks for sharing that! 😄
@modestMango5767
I'd say it was must be asked by a man. Because men loves hard till the lose the person they love. Problem is not love problem is always availability, sharing everything and giving attention all time. Constant availability makes you predictable and boring. If you really want to hook someone stay cold and warm sometimes. Not telling everything, don't available 24/7 and stop sharing everything.
@modestMango5767
While great for romantic novels and movies in real life.......... sometimes Love is not enough.
Love is a verb and needs to be used like a muscle or it weakens ....
love is showing up every day and trying to meet your partner's needs. if you do not know what they need ask them Do not assume you can do whatever and expect professing your love fixes all, does not work that way.
