I finished pt skool
I just finished pt skool. The hardest 18 months of my life are over and I'm beyond happy, like a trunk has lifted off my chest. My gf left me 4 days before my bday 2 months ago. I posted soemthing on *** about me finishing school, and 13 minutes later, she posts a old picture, which is a pic of her tik tok profile pic. That same pic has been her tik tok profile pic for months already....so why post it on *** all of a sudden? Her caption said soemthing like "felt cute might delete later" I couldn't read her caption, let alone look at the pic. Why post soemthing with no purpose? Did she just post soemthing cuz she saw i did? She's the one who left me, I don't understand
@toughPapaya1551
Hi there, it sounds like you're feeling confused and hurt by your ex-girlfriend's recent social media post. It's understandable to feel this way, especially given the timing and context of the post.
It's hard to know exactly why your ex-girlfriend posted the picture and caption that she did, but it's important to remember that you are not responsible for her actions or behaviours. It's possible that she saw your post about finishing school and felt the need to respond in some way, but it's also possible that the post had nothing to do with you at all.
Regardless of her motives, it's important to focus on your own accomplishments and successes. You have worked hard to finish school, and that is something to be proud of. It's also important to take care of yourself during this time, whether that means seeking support from friends and family, engaging in self-care activities, or talking to a therapist or counsellor.
@Mya000 I just feel like we were cheated out of a relationship, covid. Her parents. Me not having a car. Me being in school with no money to go out and plan dates. And I feel guilty for finishing school since it clearly derailed the relationship and played a huge part. Because mentally, I wasn't invested in the relationship from the school stress. But I always have loved her. I just couldn't show it, and now that I can, I can't help but feel this sincerely is a timing issue
@toughPapaya1551 I can understand how you feel about the situation. It's hard when external factors like COVID, finances, and transportation can get in the way of a relationship. It's important to remember that these things are out of our control, and it's not your fault for finishing school. It's natural to feel guilty, but try not to blame yourself too much. It sounds like timing might have played a part in the relationship not working out, but it's never too late to reach out and express your feelings. Wishing you the best, take care.