I found out why I always wanted to be with my boyfriend
I found out that he's my only source of comfort and security. When I'm with him I can rest my mind. I don't have to think about financial problems, about being alone, about going to work. He's just my safe space. However, he's a nurse. He's on a shifting schedule and I want to be with him every day. But it's not possible because he has a shifting schedule. It messes up my mind that I can not be with him every day because of it. It affects my work too. That's why I have to find another source of comfort and security. The problem is, its so hard being alone. It suffocates me. I need advice guys. I am so desperate in fixing my life. Thank you so much.
@littleSpring9413
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I'm sorry that you are struggling and he sounds like an amazing partner
I've no doubt you are too.
But it's important to as hard as it is, build independence outside of the relationship to ensure it's healthy and balanced and then the time you have together will be much better 💚
It's important to find support within yourself, you are capable.
It's nice to spend time together and in an ideal world as much as possible but it's not possible 💙 and you get too reliant!
