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littleSpring9413
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I found out why I always wanted to be with my boyfriend
Relationship Stress / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 June 20th
...See more I found out that he's my only source of comfort and security. When I'm with him I can rest my mind. I don't have to think about financial problems, about being alone, about going to work. He's just my safe space. However, he's a nurse. He's on a shifting schedule and I want to be with him every day. But it's not possible because he has a shifting schedule. It messes up my mind that I can not be with him every day because of it. It affects my work too. That's why I have to find another source of comfort and security. The problem is, its so hard being alone. It suffocates me. I need advice guys. I am so desperate in fixing my life. Thank you so much.
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How do I fix anxious attachment in relationship?
Relationship Stress / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 June 17th
...See more I think I'm slowly ruining my relationship. I don't have my own identity and my world revolves around my boyfriend. I have a job, and it is flexible where I can make my own schedule when to work. Now, I tailored it to match my bf's schedule so we can spend time together. Is that bad? I just want to be with him when it's possible but I don't think it's healthy. I know I need to focus on myself more but I'm lost. I don't know what to do or where to start. Is there someone here I can talk to about this?
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Am I weird for being jealous of my partner's treatment towards his niece?
Relationship Stress / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 May 22nd
...See more My bf has a niece. She's around 5-7 years old. He's so sweet towards her. Kissing her, saying i love you, and cuddling with her. I am jealous of the way he treats her. I wanted to be treated that way too. Our sweetness is nowhere to be found. Is that weird?
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Emptiness
Anxiety Support / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 May 20th
...See more What do you do when you feel so empty most of the time? That's all I would feel when I'm not doing anything. My anxiety then creeps in.
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Is this normal in a long term relationship (3 years)?
Relationship Stress / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 May 18th
...See more I am not used to the setup we are in with my boyfriend. For a little background, he works as a nurse and I am in a working-from-home setup as an online teacher. Now, he's not sweet anymore. When we see each other, I feel like he's just forced to see me because I am his girlfriend and I have no friends I can go out with. We don't laugh as often anymore. It just feels like a routine. I would like to think that maybe he's just tired from work. I can't feel the excitement from him when he sees me anymore. But me, I'm always excited to see him. I feel like he doesn't love me as much as I love him because I will still be happy to see him even though I am so tired. I'm also thinking that maybe it's just temporary since we're shifting from students to working adults. What are your thoughts? Is it normal in long term relationships? Is this how the rest of our relationship will gonna go? Is there anyone who went through the same circumstances? How did you fix this?
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Everything is so overwhelming
Anxiety Support / by littleSpring9413
Last post
 May 18th
...See more I feel so overwhelmed and anxious when I am alone. I feel like I need to do something constantly. I want to be always distracted or else my mental health crumbles. I don't know what to do. Does anyone have a suggestion on how to cope? Or has anyone felt this before and coped with it? How did you overcome it? Let's have a chat.
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