I'm a bit lost an confused
I'm not quite sure where to go from here this my first post on this ( new member since yesterday)
But I'm in a relationship and this gal is amazing to me and my kids. I love her to death. But the other side of that coin I've lost my small circle of friends, social life, space and time.
Guess I jus need some advice on where to go from here. Lost friends because they aren't the brightest and they annoy her, I can't do things alone like fishing or riding without her questioning who's with and picture evidence making sure I'm not hanging out with people. She recently lost her apartment so she moved in an all my appliances are getting stowed away to make room for her things. I have one spot next to my bed for bathroom items an my clothes are stuffed under the bed to accommodate her items and things.
I've tried voicing my issues with all this but she doesn't hear me out. I love her so much cuz she is great but how would one go about this? I don't really know what to do
First be a Titan and a real Titan knows when someone annoys his girl what to do but don't forget just because of girl never break your friend circle, social life, space and time. Because once you start being too available for any girl they left you and you'll have nothing behind you your life, social life, friends or anything. So keep the balance your life..
I hope you understand
That does make sense I appreciate you
@Sanity3226
I hear that you love her and shes good to you and your kids 💙
But she has no right to judge your friend, or tell you who you can or cannot hang out with.
Or only make room for her stuff.
Relationships are about two people, not one, you deserved the same energy back, and you deserve respect, trust, and to be able to voice your own opinions and have your decisions respected 💙
Thank you
@Sanity3226
A pleasure 💜
@Sanity3226
I appreciate you love her and think she is great, but you also need your boundaries as well. Putting all your things in storage or under bed to accommodate her things well sounds nice of you. If she appreciates you too. A person whom you are doing a favor should act like a guest. She should also not dictate who are your friends or what you can do on your own.
A person who wants that control is not showing you respect or trust. In a relationship you should be able to discuss boundaries for BOTH of you.