I'm feeling stuck.
I am a garde 11 student. I have a lot to study these days. There's test every week. Homeworks, assignments etc. Along with expectations from parents. And their threat to throw me out of house if I don't score well enough. All in all I'm stressed.
And a few weeks earlier I realised that I had a crush on a girl. I started chatting with her on I G but my very cool friend sent her a reel using my account (without my knowledge) which said that she's a piece of crap. Now she has blocked me. I thought that, at end of the day, it's okay because I have A LOT of other important things. In this week since Monday, she has started sitting either in front of my bench or her friend sits next to me and she sits next to him.
I think that she likes me. But if she does why doesn't she unblocks me. I've seen her looking at me multiple times but I avoid looking on her at all cost. I want to move on from her because I feel that she's doing this to make fun of me. Idk what's on her mind but it's (idk why) stressing me out. I've never talked to her with my mouth. I just texted her. I also think that I'm overthinking, but part of my brain still wants her. Idk what to do. Some people say "strike up a conversation" but I suffer from social anxiety. Though I've worked most out of it, it pops up again if I see her.
@ApurvaSingh123
can i ask a question if someone was on your account ... why or how? hacked or does someone know your passwords or did you leave app open ?
Do you know who it was and can they confess it was them to clear up the issue?
I have seen or heard so many people whom someone caused problems by posting something on someones else account... what is their motive do they like this person wanted to make sure you were not in the picture?
Our school bus had a problem and because of that, me and my friend were at school for extra 2 hours. My friend's phone died at that time. When another van came to pick us from school, I was so tired that I plugged my earpod and took a nap. I gave my phone to my friend because he's fan of PUBG and I thought that he wouldn't disturb me while I am asleep. He knew all of the password of my phone. Idk what he did, but I couldn't log back into my I G account for 2 days because of some ' report' against me.
Later I realised that she has blocked me.
I have one more question popping up... How do I know whether she is using me for approval or she is really interested in me?
Also how do I get over fear of talking to her...(as it's considered taboo for a boy and girl to be talking)
@ApurvaSingh123
Of course it is hard for me to answer your question as cultural expectations vary... about boys and girls talking...... but in my opinion one only KNOWS for sure if the person of interest tells them so.
Hope you learned a valuable lesson in lending your phone and what can happen.... unfortunately all over the world some "friends" show they should not be trusted.
Okay but how do I know whether she's using me for her validation or she is really interested.
There's again a problem of communication. Three of her male friends sit behind her and her female friends in front of her. Idk how to communicate with her.
