I'm kinda stuck. I need help
Hi
I'm a teenager. I currently have a crush on a girl. But something is bothering me....
It's a long story..
When My cousin (today she's in her 30s) was in her high school, a guy had a crush on her... He wrote a letter to my cousin about what he felt.... Ironically, the letter made past to my aunt before my cousin could read it.
Fast forward a decade....
That guy was at his home ( he was on parole. He assaulted women). Co incidentally his home was on the same street of my cousin.
My cousin had bought a brand new Range Rover, and that guy just threw a brick at my cousin when he saw her..
Then he went to jail again.
I feel that I'm a criminal just like that guy. Maybe I'm a psychopath just like him.
If I went for my crush, what will be the difference between him and me?
I want to around my crush... But then what will be the difference between me and a stalker?
Some people that crushes are normal.... I feel that these things destroy a person's personality.
Idk what to do about guilt of having a crush.
@ApurvaSingh123 😮 what that person did was a crime .. assaulting someone, throwing something at someone to harm them physically was equally awful to which he got the punishment for
it's not the same as wanting to be around your crush I think tho.. it's actually not comparable too for me :o
there's nothing wrong in having a crush on someone <3 developing a liking for someone is v natural <3 you're not a bad person for liking someone.
ofcourse so long we don't keep any unrealistic expectations or want to hurt someone if they aren't liking us back D: like that would be concerning but otherwise just liking someone is actually cute specially in teen years
it's certainly nothing bad to like someone 🤗
would you like to tell us more about how you feel? <3 also what makes you feel these types of things destroy personality?