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Hi, I found this page with meta ai. I feel really lonely. Mi boyfriend got a depresión and now he is a very diferente persona. For example: today i'm SO sad and i feel very lonely and he just discuss with me saying that i'm not good with him because hewad very very busy. In the past he always worry about me, but now he is like another guy and i don't want to be like this anymore
@hardworkingStrawberries4751
I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s so hard when someone you love changes because of something as heavy as depression. It can feel like you’ve lost the person you once knew, and that’s a lot to carry alone.
Your boyfriend's behavior likely isn’t personal, depression often makes people distant, irritable, or preoccupied with their struggles. But that doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid. It’s okay to feel hurt and lonely. You also deserve support, and it’s important to care for yourself in this process.
Have you been able to talk openly with him about how you feel? Maybe not during an argument, but at a calm moment? Sometimes just expressing, “I feel really sad and disconnected lately, and I miss how we used to be,” can open a door.
You’re not alone, even though it feels that way right now. What can you do today to give yourself some comfort or peace?
Thanks for your answer.
I talked to him about this i'm the past and he doesnt look like a perdón who cares about it. Sometimes,when he is overwelm with a discusion he used to breakup with me ando yesterday he mentioned something that make me think that he is gonna make this AGAIN and I don't want that again