I’m not sure what to do at this point..
Me and my fiancé have been having problems non stop. We hit our 8 month mark as of this month on the 13th, which I am so very happy about. But as of lately he’s just been different. This month is also hard for him, as due what happened in his past.
But as of lately he’s been more distant, more protecting of his phone which he has never been since we have been dating until of recent, he doesn’t share his location anymore which he used to all the time. I have some major trust issues due to my trauma from previous relationships. So, I do know a thing or two due to the past and being right. I am really hoping he isn’t cheating on me, as he is the most loyalist guy I’ve known. I just don’t know what to do..
@mzmuffinz
Relationships require communication and yet so many seem to avoid it.
Instead some assume or read more into if partner seems distant ...how are they acting about their phone etc. Some may play detective trying to look at any socials or read texts if they have access to phone etc. We are building up resentment or playing scenarios in our head about how we will respond to this or that .... this is like rust growing on our trust and making us question ourselves.
In order to deal with a problem we have to know what the problem is. Talk to your fiance. make it OK to share anything with each other. Imagine the situation reversed and if you were going thru something would you want him to communicate or fear the worst about you?
It is so much easier to deal with things early instead of waiting for something to blow up.
