I’m not sure what to put here
So I realize that this might be a different issue than most on this group but here I go. I’m just so fed up that all of my friends have boyfriends then break up then find a new guy. They are all so pretty so they deserve it but I feel like they just need to keep one. I am over here desperate for someone but the only people who like me are either creepy old men on the internet or dudes who don’t give me enough personal space ( as I’m sitting too close or not letting me breathe) I don’t have high expectations I don’t think at least. I would like them to like me be maybe just slightly taller and not be creepy and respect me. Them looking good is a plus and it’s not a major deciding factor but it does weigh in. I realize that I must sound ridiculous and honestly this has been going on for while now but the reason I’m fed up is actually stupid. My breaking point was my advance English class watching The Outsiders and not very smart to play that movie around hormonal teenagers but I ended up being attracted to one of them and that made me think about all of this. I told you it was stupid. I also realize that people go though abusive relationships and much worse than being lovesick so please don’t come for me. I’m starting to sound even more dumb than before so I’m gonna stop writing now bye<3
@Evvieskate Stand back about 3 ft. from all this. Take in the wide wide view of it (your feelings and thoughts all). Make sure you include in your view the rest of the world in the distance all the way to the horizon and including all of your peripheral view. Pause. Breath in slowly. Have some compassion for yourself. Hang out with this experience as you might when enjoying being on the beach or up in the mountains. All of life that we witness and marvel at but don’t control.