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Evvieskate
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Hi so I’m always going to be here to help!

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Anxiety Support / by Evvieskate
Last post
January 26th
...See more Hi I need so advise. So my whole family recently got Covid and none of us have felt well. I didn’t go to school and I emailed my teachers to tell them and I said that I would do work while I was gone… I did not. I didn’t feel well at all. But we had a snow day and we worked from home and I woke up at 2:30pm and I never did any work. I just feel so bad and I’m so anxious for when I have to go back to school and be so far behind.
Help idk what to do
Relationship Stress / by Evvieskate
Last post
January 7th
...See more Hi so me and my boyfriend have been together for not too long but he makes me happy I’m giggled and kicked my feet like a little girl multiple times with him. We just get each other. Now I’m not legally and adult if that helps with age but we are almost 2 years apart. Not bad and not inappropriate. We just have one small issue l, he wants it to be an open relationship because we live in different continents( I’ve met him irl before so we’re good) He says that because he might end up liking a girl that’s near him and me being stupid said it was fine but it made me sad. The offer is open for both of us so I could go out and do my own thing too but I’m with him because he makes me laugh and no one near me likes me anyways. I just kinda feel as if I’m the clingy younger girl to her older boyfriend. I know he loves me too but I just don’t know. This is probably stupid but if anyone has advice please give me some I could really use it. Have a lovely day!
Please help
Self-Esteem / by Evvieskate
Last post
January 5th
...See more So I’m typing this just because I need some advice or I’m gonna relapse again. (I know this sounds like it should be in a recovery chat but just bare with me) My friend is drop dead gorgeous, she can do makeup and her hair my be FRIED but it’s such a pretty color. She basically is model material. I on the other hand can only do mascara and smudged eyeliner. I have skin cancer and keratosis pilaris (look it up) I have short healthy fake ginger hair. Im naturally blonde if that helps. I have glasses and basically no eyebrows. Me and her decided to download an app for making friends although most people use it was a teen dating app (it’s name is Wizz) we made an account that said send this emoji for her this emoji for the other girl. Absolutely no one wanted to talk to me at all. They would compliment me but say she’s gorgeous and I mean she is. But the app is on my phone so I just constantly get messages ment for her. It sucks. And I do modeling and I had an evaluation and brought her along because she was going to stay over later that night. They thought she was the model and ignored me. When I told them that “hey it’s actually me!” They offered HER the job she’s never modeled in her life. She turned it down but it looked like she wanted to take it. This is getting quite long but I need some advice to become more pretty. I can’t keep living like this.
Help please
Women's Issues / by Evvieskate
Last post
January 4th
...See more I feel so bad because I’m angry at something that’s stupid. My friend (K) got her period a few months ago. I’ve had mine for 2 years now. K is new to this but she’s acting like she’s dying. I keep telling myself that maybe she has bad cramps but when i ask her she’ll say no. We went to a wedding yesterday and she wouldn’t get up at all because she’s paranoid but you can still leak when sitting. I understand being paranoid I am too but I feel so angry because she won’t do ANYTHING fun all she wants to do is be on her phone and she’s honestly been pretty mean to me. I have depression and anxiety and she keeps putting me on the spot and acting like I’m stupid. I know I’m probably being an A hole but I just don’t know. Could someone please give some advice I don’t wanna be angry for my vacation any longer.
Help please
Anxiety Support / by Evvieskate
Last post
December 29th, 2023
...See more Hi so please a few people respond to this. Anyways I’m about to go across the US with my friend and her family and I’m so very excited. But I also don’t wanna go I’m going to miss my family even if they drive me insane. I just don’t want something to happen to them but it’s too late to turn back now but idk. Last time I went on a trip with my friend my grandpa died. Idk just someone please help. Have a lovely day!
Help please
Friendship Support / by Evvieskate
Last post
December 16th, 2023
...See more So based on the title I just need some advice. My friend became hospitalized and the sickness was contagious so I couldn’t visit her for 3 weeks. Now we did text but I was so busy with school and sports and she was mostly sleeping so we didn’t talk much. Once she was better and back at school we were still kinda distant but I just thought she was doing catch up work so I left her alone after trying again. About 2 months later it’s still not the same. I had a birthday party where everyone of the party was going ice skating and she wasn’t invited as it was with my other friends. I told her we could go together the day after. She ended up having a sleepover with a girl named A (not her real name) and I was happy she had more friends but a little disappointed as we could not do our premade plans because they were busy. I asked them about it and it sounded like they had the time of their lives while when we hang out it’s not boring but it’s like a routine, we do the same things. Now I recently invited her to my house for a sleepover with just us and we can go ice skating together because we haven’t hung out alone in forever. Then I get a text from her saying A wants to come as well, I mean I felt a little sad but I said it was fine. Then my best friend says and I quote, “It's sm funner than ours E trust me lol” (I’m E) and they wanted to change the sleepover to As house. Then in the group chat they decided to have a full blown convo and I just didn’t talk. Now I’m a little upset but A is so kind I just can’t hate her and that makes me hate her more. I know hate is a strong word but that’s how I feel and now I feel so confused and stupid.
Dec 7
Journals & Diaries / by Evvieskate
Last post
December 12th, 2023
...See more Hi so um I’m sorta new here sorta not but here I go I guess I feel stupid writing this as well quite frankly it is. I have been feeling.. off recently and I think I’ve figured out why. My advanced English class recently watched The Outsiders after reading the book. I don’t think it was the best idea to play a movie about a group of boys the same age as hormonal high school girls but it was a good movie. I also ended being caught in the trap and ended up becoming attracted to one of them also. And this got me thinking, I am 16 years old and have only ever been in a single relationship and that was in 6th grade. My friends seem to have a different boyfriend every 2 months. I realize that I’ve come to this conclusion because of a movie I watched at school but now it’s kinda bothering me. I also realize that so many people have much worse issues than me complaining. I just feel weird about this while situation could at least a few people help? Have a lovely day!
I’m not sure what to put here
Relationship Stress / by Evvieskate
Last post
December 6th, 2023
...See more So I realize that this might be a different issue than most on this group but here I go. I’m just so fed up that all of my friends have boyfriends then break up then find a new guy. They are all so pretty so they deserve it but I feel like they just need to keep one. I am over here desperate for someone but the only people who like me are either creepy old men on the internet or dudes who don’t give me enough personal space ( as I’m sitting too close or not letting me breathe) I don’t have high expectations I don’t think at least. I would like them to like me be maybe just slightly taller and not be creepy and respect me. Them looking good is a plus and it’s not a major deciding factor but it does weigh in. I realize that I must sound ridiculous and honestly this has been going on for while now but the reason I’m fed up is actually stupid. My breaking point was my advance English class watching The Outsiders and not very smart to play that movie around hormonal teenagers but I ended up being attracted to one of them and that made me think about all of this. I told you it was stupid. I also realize that people go though abusive relationships and much worse than being lovesick so please don’t come for me. I’m starting to sound even more dumb than before so I’m gonna stop writing now bye<3
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