I’m the problem

@diligentBlueberry1589 hello there blueberry. i am kate, a trained listener here on 7 cups. it sounds like your behavior brought your relationship to an end :( that must be horrible to go through and I know what it feels like because I've been there, too. i hear you that you want to get back with your partner, but don't plan on reaching out. in what other way do you think you could best work on getting back with your partner?

@diligentBlueberry1589

It sounds like your former partner wants nothing to do with you at this point in time. While that may be difficult to come to terms with, you need to respect that wish. Instead of looking for ways to circumvent the blocking, try to focus inward. What behaviors do you feel led you down the wrong path? How can you incorporate meaningful change so you don't repeat those mistakes? Basically just work on what you didn't like about yourself in that relationship. In the meantime, your estranged partner will have time to heal from the wounds and maybe at some point in the future you'll both be in a better place to begin having conversations again.

Good luck!

@diligentBlueberry1589

well try to contact him in what ever way possible and try to fix things out