I'm tired.. just being left in the dark with constant worry
She's always leaving me in the dark and won't communicate with me about her problems. She tells me I don't understand her feelings with her problems but she won't tell me what's going on. She just leaves me in the dark and worried and scared. It's been 4 weeks since I've talked to her. She won't answer texts or calls. Amd it's not the first time she's done that. It's been countless times. My anxiety gets so bad I get panic attacks... I'm afraid to lose her.
@DragonFerret42091
relationships require working together and her keeping you in the dark and not including you is her error.
sometimes a simple discussion with someone .....and that person may have the piece of the puzzle to solve or clear up some of her issues. refusing help and ignoring it make sure these episodes continue and she is not really working on getting well.
You need to decide if she is not wanting to fix something if you can put up with watching her go down this path again and again