Im wrecked
she cheated on me, and I found out that yesterday, i knew something was off , but i loved her, did everything for her, inwas there for her in darkest of her places and now she found someone who probably is better looking than me and is more rich , and now I feel like a total fool giving my heart to someone . *** when I was with her i didn't even saw other women cause i respected her and loved her too much.
sometimes loving too much is harmfull, at least that's what I'm seeing right now.
I was really great in my studies, I was a topper of my class , and was great in everything until I met her , and now it's all fcked up, failed in 3 exams consecutively and wasted a whole damn year on nothing , just nothing. for someone like me , and the way i have been all my life, being a high achiever sort of thing it's like unbelievable to just exist. please help me
@decisiveWheel1659 "when I was with her i didn't even saw other women cause i respected her and loved her too much."
Remember that if you're tempted to hate yourself and stuff or compare yourself to another guy.
A good woman will not see other men when she loves you.
@decisiveWheel1659 Sometimes beautiful things grow out of the darkest of times. Something good might be around the corner that can come from this.
Thanks
@decisiveWheel1659 You're welcome. Maybe she wasn't meant to be with you.
Maybe there's a better woman in the future who will treat you very good.
The thing I'm regretting is the amount of time i wasted on her instead of putting it into my work and career. But i loved her that i sacrificed my life a bit for her and now years are gone. Things that i could have done for myself, that i didn't do it, so now I feel from both the sides, lost the relationship, got betrayed , cheated on and at the same time the sacrifices I made for my career , all gone and now I'm in a wreck.
Do you have any suggestions or advice? Anything will work?
@decisiveWheel1659 with your career are you unemployed at the moment?
Yes , at the moment yes, year before I wasn't , when I lost the job it's when things went sideways with her. I didn't know what happened to her. But when I lost the job, she started acting strange
@decisiveWheel1659 Try a temp agency to get back into work.
Maybe she was interested in your money to support her one day.
Yeah I'm on that, but still it hurts that , love can be transactional, where there are women out there , who just wants their need met, when it stops it's done. Like i might laugh at myself, how *** stupid I can be for giving me heart to this person. And it was a good job, it was an engineering job and the pay was good too. Like i wasn't just surviving, it was good money and was saving too. I don't know how and what happened, but 5 years went like that