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Inappropriate stuff, idk if I'm allowed to discuss it

User Profile: calmLunch9427
calmLunch9427 May 22nd

I guess it's a mix of friendship and relationship stuff, but I have a friend, we're pretty close, we talk almost every day, and we really appreciate each other and everything, and have even "talked" and "gotten closer" over the past month. Things escalated, really

I'm into him, and he's into me, but we're not exactly into all the same "things", like, privately, if you catch my drift. I want to please him, and meet those needs, if that makes sense, but I'm just not into what he's into, and it makes me feel bad. But I also don't want to hurt him

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 22nd

@calmLunch9427

It's not about hurting him.

It's your feelings and boundaries that matter.

A relationship is not simply one sided or about his needs 

You don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable with and if that's not ok with him, he's not the one for you 🩷

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User Profile: calmLunch9427
calmLunch9427 OP May 22nd

Yeah, I understand that. Tho, I did end up talking to him after this post, and we settled things. It's doing alright now

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 23rd

@calmLunch9427

I'm glad 💙

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