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User Profile: ApurvaSingh123
ApurvaSingh123 July 23rd, 2023

Hi, I have a crush on girl and I don't find any opportunity to talk to her.

When I arrive in class, she's always with her friends...

In recess/ break she's with her friends

And

During the end she's always with her friends

Except at the parking lot where she's always on her phone..

( Once I tried talking to her but she just ignored me because she was wearing noise cancelling headphones)




Also 9/10 times seats around her are not available...

And at that 1/10, I usually start feeling nervous...

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 July 24th, 2023

@ApurvaSingh123

if you keep waiting for the right moment it is not coming...

find a way to speak with her or move on...lurking around waiting for a moment she is alone or not with headphones she probably has seen you and if you do not make some small talk she might think you are a stalker.


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User Profile: ApurvaSingh123
ApurvaSingh123 OP August 23rd, 2023

@toughTiger6481

just to update you. I started chatting with her on I G but my very cool friend sent her a reel using my account (without my knowledge) which said that she's a piece of crap. Now she has blocked me. I thought that, at end of the day, it's okay because I have A LOT of other important things(like studying for exams). This week since Monday, she has started sitting either in front of my bench or her friend sits next to me and she sits next to him.

I think that she likes me. But if she does why doesn't she unblock me? I've seen her looking at me multiple times but I avoid looking at her at all costs. I want to move on from her because I feel that she's doing this to make fun of me. Idk what's on her mind but it's (idk why) stressing me out. I've never talked to her with my mouth. I just texted her. I also think that I'm overthinking, but part of my brain still wants her. I don't know what to do. Some people say "strike up a conversation" but I suffer from social anxiety. Though I've worked most out of it, it pops up again if I see her. and for a while, I was determined to forget her and move on but her actions have stopped my progress of moving on from her

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 23rd, 2023

@ApurvaSingh123

well i am proud of you for making the gesture to reach out ....

the whole blocking and unblocking is just drama I have never understood that game. ......... her finding ways to sit near by or her friends are sitting closer to you then before suggests to me some sort of interest....


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