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I need advice

Hi there. I’m looking for some perspective on a complicated situation it's about a guy that I've been talking to for almost three months

We’ve been talking online for a while now, and we have a really deep connection we share similar interestes and tastes in almost everything..Honestly he is part of my daily life and someone who truly gets me.

Lately, I’ve been struggling with whether I should suggest making our relationship 'official' or if I should just leave things as they are because we don't talk platonically at all.. but I’m worried about changing the dynamic we have... and wht if i lose him as to somehow? or wht if things don't work out in btween?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 14th

@rationalBlueberry781

Hello

I find it interesting when so many ask what if it is often negative.   what if's work both ways. 

What if he is thinking the same but is afraid of bringing it up? 

what if it does work out and becomes more? 

there are always chances in life but finding out saves you time invested into something that will not work too.  I would rather know then to be worried about what if.