I need your help and advice
Hello!! Can y'all help me to resolve my emotions, feelings...
Yesterday I did something that I'm regretting now..i broke my bestfriend's trust..i blamed her doubted her and our friendship because of one small misunderstanding...i was so insecure and because of my overthinking i ruined our friendship.. later i apologized to her..but sometimes Apologizes are meaningless..once it's broken it can't be the same again...she said she needs time just leave her alone ..i don't know whether she will continue this friendship or not .. whatever decision she will I'll respect her decision...but it hurts ...i didn't intend to hurt her ...i don't know what to do what to say how to save our friendship...i can't bear this pain ..it hurts to see her hurting because of my stupidity...
What should I do? Should I try to contact her again?
From experience as been in this situation to many times but I always found the best thing to do is tell them the truth tell them that you didn’t mean for this to all happen. I always found that if you tell the truth then hopefully they shall understand. Yeah they might not reply or tell you to leave them alone for a bit but least you told them everything.
hope this helps. Sorry if it makes no sense 😞
@Butterflyeffect21
give her space some people need time to absorb and analyze whatever happened. i tend to want to keep talking or something but see now that often does not have a good effect.
I think if she is your best friend ....... deep down she will know you did not mean to do things.... i have been very short with my best friend before out of frustration we take a break and we both see how things may have escalated......
maybe if the time goes by you can reach out not to rehash and open a wound but to see if there is a path forward.