Intimacy issues
My fiance and I have been having issues with intimacy. For the last few years when I try or ask to get intimate with him he says not today or some other excuse as of why he doesn’t want to. When we do, it’s after I try to initiate or ask him if we can. We do it maybe twice a month. I don’t know how to properly address the situation. But lately it’s been making me very upset everytime I’m denied.
@babygirl3277
Some people may have lower libidos or are not as interested in being intimate as often as their partner.
have you had any discussion about it with him ? does he seem into it when you are together?
is this something you think you can accept long term? it is a big issue usually in longer term couples where one may not feel the need like their partner.... it can really kill a relationship and the sooner one can open up and discuss with their partner the better.