Irritation regarding the opposite gender.
I don't know if it's the right place of post it feels free to inform me
So i just wanted to express my irritation and annoyance regarding opposite gender
Usually i avoid talking with opposite gender cuz they just after few interactions develop attraction I met many boys whom i helped and just showed little kindness politeness out of humanity it pisses me off that they take this gesture as I'm interested in them or they have a chance with me even after saying they no they keep pursuing me.
I'm sure I'm not the only one experiencing this. For sure i have met few boys who wasn't like this at all but mostly they were older from me or from another nation. I saw this pattern in adolescents boys
I can understand why do they behave in such way that's so sad that showing little kindness and politeness to someone can make them fall for us it tell us how rough things might have been for them.
And one thing more I have noticed is when a female get involved with such type of boy they eventually lose feelings and take certain actions which led to a ugly end of the relationship.
One more thing I have noticed is they perform they manipulate, lie and hurt other person's feelings. I stopped making male friends due to this and my hate is just increasing.
I'm not generalising boys but I've experienced this many times and saw people near me experiencing it.
@justpari9
It is a male problem? Or human problem?
There are some differences between men and a women... and as a man myself, young men... I can tell you that most of us... are just lost... having no or bad role models... missing real father figures... and we now live in a world where society is different... and we dont even know what does it mean to be a man and what to do and how to live.... and the modern world and society is more against men... so it is really difficult.
Yea that is a human problem as well ***
Yea i have seen gender discrimination and how hard it has become for today man's to live there aren't protected even as much as womens are.
I'm really sorry for all the difficulties.They aren't even allowed to express as much as womens are I know they have lot of there own struggles.
I was just expressing my frustration hope it didn't offended you.
@justpari9
Yeah, women and men have their own difficulties. It is hard for both, but as a man I dont know much the specific issues that women face in today´s society.
No of course not, good you are sharing! Thank you
I've experienced this too, helping someone out and all of a sudden, it's interpreted as a romantic gesture.
I have to be a bit stern or cold, when I reject them so they get the message unfortunately.
I feel it's from loneliness or poor self esteem so they latch on, hoping it's reciprocated.
Fellow female friends, didn't flirt or cross lines and I didn't feel physically uncomfortable around them.
Yea females always respect boundaries and try there best to be respectful. Even many men do it as well.
And the rejecting point is so true if you reject them politely or kindly they will really not take it as a rejection and yes it's all because of there troublesome past but sometimes it really feels frustrating when almost every boy started doing this.
I'm happy to see there's someone who have felt same as me glad to know. :-)
Yea females always respect boundaries and try there best to be respectful. Even many men do it as well.
And the rejecting point is so true if you reject them politely or kindly they will really not take it as a rejection and yes it's all because of there troublesome past but sometimes it really feels frustrating when almost every boy started doing this.
I'm happy to see there's someone who have felt same as me glad to know. :-)
