Is distance normal after 3 months of dating
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 months. Things were great and we would spend a lot of time together whether being on the phone or in person. I work offshore so we would spend hours on the phone together everyday. I was home for 2 weeks around the forth of July and spent everyday with her. Since I left back for work she has been very distant. I’ve had to fight tooth and nail to call her or even really just hear from her. I’ve brought it up 2 times since I’ve been out here for the last 2 weeks and I don’t know what the issue is. She said she was afraid she would lose feelings since I’m away from home for work and that scared me, even terrified me. I will give her the benefit of the doubt for the past couple days since she has been recovering from her wisdom teeth surgery. But even before then her whole demeanor changed about our relationship and I don’t know what to do.
@Jacoba937
my spouse worked on a ship when we first got together gone months at a time, difficult yes but missing him did not change my feelings
if she loses feelings having you work off shore and spending what time you can with her ..... simply put she is not that into you.
i am assuming you have a good job and to say that may be the break is not a remark from someone serious....
Thank you I needed to hear this. I’ll bring it up whenever she and I call next. I’ve been very anxious about the whole situation
@Jacoba937