Is it over?
So, im a 16yo guy, and ive been trying to find a girlfriend since i was 14. I tried literally everything: sports, hobbies, haircut, style improvement, new people and even weight loss (from obese to normal). Im still single and lonely. By the attractiveness, i went from 2/10 to 4/10 (considering 5/10 is a laverage). Girls arent taking any initiative at all. Not to mention, they always end up either ignoring or friendzoning me.
Should i give up at this point?
@maxsteff
Wow!?! Your really getting prepared for the main event! Congratulations!
It's going to happen for you i'm certain of this!
On the average it takes 12 attempts to get a date.
Experience is key, the more you try the better the odds are..
Thank you for sharing! 🌲
Thank you too!
@maxsteff
Hii, I might not be the best person to give advice. Let me ask by saying this, what’s the reason you want a girlfriend. I think that’s the first thing you need to do. Then the next is to try to build your self confidence or self esteem. Learn to love yourself first, then people can start to love you too. Be confident in your own space. Last of all, be yourself, people don’t want to see copie sod other people, they want to see a unique person. It’s not over for you, far from it. You are a lovely young man!!
Hi! The reason is that im feeling lonely and unloved. Because my parents dont care about me either. But anyways, thanks for the advices!
@maxsteff
To be honest, at 16, you definitely shouldn’t give up. And the most important thing right now is not to let girls control you. What am I talking about? At this age, it’s very easy to follow their lead, do everything to please them, and be exactly what they want you to be. That’s a path to self-destruction. Instead of doing that, you could focus on yourself and on the things you enjoy. For example, sports, creative pursuits, or science. And that doesn’t mean you should forget about style or your appearance. Those things are important. But build yourself up not just on the outside, but on the inside, too. Once they’re in their 20s, many girls outgrow their teenage nonsense and start to be interested in serious guys who have more to offer than just empty bravado. Be strong.
Ohh, i almost fell into their trap, not gonna lie...
And now i know that youre right.
But im also feeling like im behind everyone because many people my age are already dating and having sxual life. But i dont. And it makes me feel unloved.
Anyways, thanks for your help!
It can be hard when you are young you probably don't have many options where you are at. When you get older and see the world it gets easier. The hard part is finding someone that isn't crazy or backstabbing. Start lifting weights and saving for a car if you don't already have one. Don't ever be insecure about how you look and don't be afraid to shoot your shot. Also hanging around the wrong people can make you look bad sometimes you got to move around on your own when you trying to find someone speaking from personal experience a lot of my friends made me look bad around women lol
Thanks for the advices! But i wont be needing a car since im planning to move abroad in my early 20s.
@maxsteff
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