Is it wrong?...
is it wrong for me?
I have a boyfriend that i love the most, that i did something stupid for him. Sounds cheesy but yeaahh. I given up some happiness of mine for his and theres one thing i didnt give up which is being a fangirl of enhypen. i was a huge fan back before i met him i get it. And when i told him about it since he was a fan of le serrafim. He started to get cold and i asked whats wrong and he said he was insecure and demanded me to stop being a fangirl, it broke my heart and we had a fight about it and then he said "do what you want, i dont care anymore" ofc i knew he was trying to manipulate me, so i told everything how insecure i was whenever he mention some girls, how hurt i was when he never see the things i did for him and all...
All because i like enhypen...
@Littlemisstsukine27
"All because i like enhypen..." no it is not about the band you like. It is about him wanting to direct you and tell you what you like. This is a control game.
Value yourself ... your likes and dislikes. Do not give up parts of you to appease him. it seems harmless until you find out you no longer feel in control of you likes and dislikes with out his approval.
He does not see what you do for him and is manipulating you to keep doing things for him.
Thank you for your response, it was helpful and im glad someone understood that it was a control game, he kept denying it tho but i always knew it whenever we fought. 💖
