Issues via marriage
Well guys I'm here cause me and my wife both cheated, even tho I did it last it don't make it right, I'm so lost and feel like her mind is made up about me even tho she said she loves and want to be with me... She is an amazing person thats my BFF, I wanted some get back and when I got it it sucked and didn't make me feel any better... I want and love my wife so much and just want my family back.. but all she do is blame me cause I cheated last but in my eyes we both messed up and both should be working overtime to fix this... Any advise or I'm I looking at it wrong ?
@Redddabaddguy
It is not a competition of who did first, last or more times......
cheating imo is because there is a real problem that needs to be dealt with. did you both understand why it happened... what are / were you missing from your relationship...
It does not go back to before it happened it .... if it works it moves forward... it needs to be a one on one and open and honest conversation. It may be brought up again and again later you need to be ready for that
We all speak of our partners being our best friend ..sometimes even our best friend can be at odds with us.
we speak of our lives and family maybe kids but all of those things do not make up for issues between us and our partner...... be honest with yourself....... maybe the cheating was not good but if you think well go back and forget about it that will not happen
