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Is this new taboo

User Profile: creepyengineer
creepyengineer April 14th

I don't even know if this is correct forum to post this

But last week , me and my friends were playing truth and dare and someone asked me

"R u virgin"

For a second I ignored it and said "I thought we agreed on no personal questions" , but they eventually forced and I had to say and I said "yes I am " and they all started laughing "lol , 22 years old and still a virgin".

Is this genz generation cooked or am I cooked?

Is being a virgin becoming a new taboo now?

I feel like I just have to get through a relationship just so that I can lose my virginity.

I don't know man, I am going crazy, I can't think straight.

People my age be having 4-5 body count and my single *** at 0.

I don't know what am I doing wrong

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 14th

@creepyengineer

you are not doing anything wrong. it is not taboo. 

 People have asked that in a truth or dare thing for decades.   People tend to lie about their experiences as well. 


User Profile: powerfulHouse9182
powerfulHouse9182 April 16th

It's called body purity people won't understand. Let them laugh like a jester

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 16th

@creepyengineer

You are not doing anything wrong. You are not forcing yourself into something that does not align with your values, and there is real strength in that. Hats off!

I’m sorry your friends mocked you for being a virgin. That kind of judgment says more about them than it does about you.

The truth is, virginity is a social construct. Whether someone has had sex or not does not determine your worth, maturity, purity, or value as a person.

Do not cave in to pressure, ridicule, or rushed decisions simply to satisfy other people’s expectations.

There is no correct age or fixed timeline for sex. It should happen only when you genuinely want it, feel ready, and are in circumstances that feel right for you.

Move at your own pace. Your life is not behind schedule.