Is this okay and not a big issue?
He lives with me. He has some girl friends, more than guy friends. He visits them, spends time with them mostly daily. His location is shared with them (I am not supposed to get it because its privacy and he says you live with me only)
He can share his phone with them not me (Privacy)
They ask him to go somewhere far, doesn’t hesitate to say no but he says no to me. ( He says I am his own so he can be him)
if they say no to go somewhere he will force them or atleast push them, but for me he just says okay.
Are these little things and I should just ignore them and focus on myself?
@brown01,
that doesn't sound like he's in a committed relationship with. He seems to be abusing the phrase "privacy". Doesn't feel like a small issue but like red flags to me.
@brown01
Hard to say with small information .... anything can be a red flag if we look at it that way. i had some who made a huge case of "what if "..about nothing .....................while others have missed glaring instances of obvious issues.
It does seem that he takes your relationship for granted. I am guessing you have spoke to this with him more then once? is his manner reassuring or defensive?
In general i find many people get overly worked up about friends of the opposite sex.. what if you wanted to hang out with him and his friends... Do they know you are his GF ? If they do .....do you think they would still hang around if they know he is not available?