Is this the world now?
My boyfriend and I just had the talk about the future for the first time. We're both single parent divorcees. He says he never wants to get married again and made every argument against living together. It's like do you even want a future with me? Like what we have now which isn't a ton due to conflicting kid schedules is it? He's the second guy I dated that's like this. I guess men are just happy with half-assed relationships that can end at any second. Completely cut ties and never see each other again. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for them to want more with me.
@MrsGoodCat "It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for them to want more with me."
Hi there. First, I would like to address this what you said here. Please, pretty please, get this kinda thinking out of your head! I don't know you, but I assure you--- you ARE good enough! ❤️ And you are worthy and deserving of someone who will love you and actually want to be with you and make a life with you! Please don't ever think that you don't deserve what you want. You deserve sooo much!
Your current partner has expressed that he never wants to get married again since having been divorced... and I can understand why he may feel that way. But ask yourself, is that something you're truly ok with? Can you be ok with "being with" someone that doesn't ever actually want more? Is this relationships current dynamic something you're happy with or are you just accepting and settling? You deserve to be happy. I hope you know this!
If for some reason this doesn't work out, I do hope you never lose hope that there is someone out there for you and waiting for you... someone who desires you and wants to be with you... emotionally and physically. Like I said, you are more than good enough! ❤️
I wish you all the happiness. I hope your relationship is fulfilling for you and that you know you deserve to be loved, cared for, provided for, and assured. Please take care of yourself. Xoxo.
