I think its over ;(

Im in a spot....conflicted with my own feelings and now also the person im seeing....firstly...it was/is/has been a revativly healthy relationship.... i THOUGHT.. i may be just being my own worst enmy right now....

Secondly, its long distsnce. Hes a 45 min drive from me in another city.

We talk daily. Call facetime. Text and game together....but today. Something his.roommate said twited my stomache and heart. "You should invite (married women names)"

First. It wasnt "maried women and husband" like the roommate had just listed wither other couples before married womens names

Second. Why was it not MY name?

We are from two completly dofferrnt world and its been somehow working. This married women always seems to also hang out with my partner without her husband.

Note. This women also only dated her husband 3 months before marrying him and met him randomly on a random taken trip to montreal. She also apprently does not talk about him with my partner ever.

I feel like i should end this relationship right NOW. Ive been here before and the last time i trusted the female best friend. I had grounds to loose ny *** and didnt on her when she kissed my partner in my house in front of me drunkly. Or am i being my own worst enemy.

I am not sure if i should be trusting my own partner even like i should be anymore...

I dont think theres an actual plan of "us" in their mind.

They are good to me always have been, but i have ALWAYS had this weird gut feeling about this "married female froend" shes unstable. Fruity and whirlwind. But my partner thinks she has no feelings for him. They dated and ive tried telling shes doing the "backup pocket boyfriend" thing with him but i also havnt tried to say anything more on it and seem like a partner that wont let them have friends of any gender