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Its driving me crazy please help me

User Profile: emotionalTalker8294
emotionalTalker8294 October 30th, 2025

We were in acting class since five months ago and on first day he waited outside and asked can i drop you somewhere no one asked him to do that.. Then he picked me up and dropped me off close to home as we live in same area, we sat close and next to eachother, always had good eye contact, our arms hands brushed against eachother and neither of us pulled away, he kept his elbow on my shoulder, his arm around me once, he once out of the blue texted me what's up something he's never done before, asked me for a selfie of us, we ate from Same bowl, i gave him my earmuff, jacket, cake, called him in when he was sick, he held my hand and kept holding it while we were waiting to cross street, he tried to hold my hands multiple times but was unsure and nervous..

We had worked together, dustributed brouchers to college, did cold calling, he wants to work with me on a duo play he asked me multiple times you'll do the play with me right?

The park day as well i just asked if he's free and he was the one who decided the park and stuff..

When we were doing cold calling for a moment he looked into my eyes and i his that it felt so intense like we were looking at eachother

Then him not even touching the other girl in dance when it was a performance but he came and stood next to me willingly and held my hand and stuff

Like i could see him choosing me yes he did acted like nothing was happening i mean he didn't told anyone that we went on hike together six in the morning he came to pick me up on his bike and stuff and we were walking alone we went out twice.. When i said oh i told you sbout the script something i had told him when we went on hike he pretended as if he didn't hear me.. I got that he doesn't want to tell anyone.. So obviously he would not show his feelings out loud but still i could sense it that he was showing me attention, helped me and stuff

It felt like we were close and we even spoke with our eyes.. He'd look at me across the room and i could read his eyes.. I would tell him come and sit down with my eyes or we're late and he'd know it.. There's so much more

we were sitting on bench at one point i asked him why time it is and he nervously went for my phone that was kept next to me, then he tried to put his arm around the bench, the way he was LOOKING at me multiple times, him trying to hold my hand, taking my jacket, asking to take a photo with him nervously and hesitant, sitting right infront of me, eating from the same bowl, holding my hands, our hands touching the pole all of these doesn't say acting buddy energy or oh i just want our friendship limited to acting type of energy.. Putting your arm around me

Tbh i think he does like me but he does not want to admit that he does so he defends it by saying i just want our friendship limited to acting.. But all his other actions does not say that..

He still watches all my stories, status

Liked my dance cover, my photo i posted with a violin, when i started talking he talked again

Even asked me what shoot i went on?? Where was it?? Told me he was coming back to town and he told sir about it

I messaged him miss ya😀hope you're having a good day🌻 he texted back yes

What happened suddenly😆

I sent him two reels and he liked it

He liked my dance cover story

Then when we met in pune i gave him oranges he accepted them said thankyou Said where you got them from? They are huge.. I had used a paper bag i got from my sister and we don't have that kind of packaging back home.. He said we dont have this kind of packaging in back home.. Even while going home he was going to say something and put his both arms on my shoulder but as everyone was there he didn't but he was almost going to do it.. And we sat in the car and had chat sir told us to. Sit in car.. It feels charged with him tbh.. Idk if I'm overthinking it but it really feels that way

i asked how did unit test go? He said ok and after an hour he texted test is next week then i asked him did he ate oranges i said yes they're amazing

He went on a hike with his friends college group.. Then he uploaded the story at 11:27am on his *** while simultaneously dm'd me the same photo even though i have nothing to do with the group or hike it has no no connection with me whatsoever.. I didn't even saw it until 4:30 pm.. And he has never sent any such photo before..he is also very cautious online so him sending it was so weird..

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 30th, 2025

@emotionalTalker8294 

When we are first getting to know someone it's exciting and fun and can be also intense.

People understandably do get nervous.

But always keep your boundaries clear and good communication is key .

Always expect the same energy you give him and never let anyone take you for granted.

You deserve the best 💜💕

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User Profile: blueLemon3704
blueLemon3704 October 31st, 2025

It does sound like he likes you but for what ever reason is scared.

Whether it's all too new an experience for him whether he's been hurt before and cautious.

We boys can be dumb and oblivious sometimes but also have you just been explicit and say you like him and would like to date. If he's in to you as much as it seems it will make him super happy. If that's what you want.

Good luck