Just got a (kinda deep) and sad question
How is it possible that 2 people who were once so so so so close and lovely become into almost hate-eachother - "strangers" . It's so crazy to me and I think it's so sad .
I've been through break ups now and now I'm also In a break up and I was never so sure about a person then with that person. We were BOTH so so so sure that we will just STAY.
So I looked at what happened to us and it just makes me so sad.
And even if we grow from "failed" relationships, why is the word so cruel?
That is a sad and deep thought. Some people are so sure and one person falls out of love. Or they want something different. Other times, people change as in they show their true colors. It seems so rare that anyone stays together forever.
@communicativeApple9560
It is sad..... and seems to question if there is a relationship that truly works.
I am in a similar situation where i too no longer recognize the person i thought was my forever... People grow and change and they need to share that.
he grew quiet when he has issues.did not want help or such ...... he does not want to share.or talk ......... he shuts us down out of embarrassment or something and is clueless that i can no longer pretend things are as they were.
the emotional distance has killed what was there and i at times hate this person i barely know NOW. I have tried but unless this is fixed in the beginning the longer it went on i no longer believe it is fixable.
@communicativeApple9560 The world seems to be so cruel sometimes. It will take away people who are our everything, the person keeping us sane. But I believe, the world works in mysterious ways. It may feel like the end of the world, but the universe is protecting you from unseen things.
It's important to realize that to grow as humans, we need to feel hurt and pain. Breakups are a part of nature, and they are meant to guide us exactly where we need to be. I am in the same situation as you described, and as hurtful as it is that I lost my lover and best friend. I believe that this pain has made me a better person and realize exactly what I want in life.
Overall, I know it's not easy to go through the lose of a loved one and become strangers all over again but the universe is guiding you in the right direction. What goes is meant to go, and if it stays, its meant to be yours.
