Just got cheated on 2 days ago
i just wanna vent about the feelings and emotions that I am going thru when my bf went to Vegas and cheated on me. He did the emotional cheating like holding hands, kissing and cuddling for an entire week. It’s just sad bc all his friends knew he had a gf or I would hope he said he had a gf when he was on the trip. I’m just so hurt that he decided to ruin something so good. He really messed up and we both have to deal with his actions. The way he didn’t wanna tell me and said I can take it to the grave and never tell anyone and I’m like no you’re telling me. And he lays it on me as he is crying about cheating on ME. He don’t even say sorry just what happens in Vegas on his trip. He asked me that if he went to Vegas we wouldn’t be breaking up but I think he knew the answer before even asking. I’m currently really salty but I know I am really hurt and sad and miss him and wish I could go to him but it’s okay. He doesn’t deserve me. Why would I wanna support someone emotionally who hurt me emotionally in the first place.
@Luccyy
I am sorry you have this going on ...
Cheating is something we really do not know what we will do unless faced with the situation. it is NOT all black and white. Each situation and level is different and what you chose to do in either working things out or leaving should be your choice.... not because others/ articles / whatever tells you you must have a red line. LIFE seldom is cut and dry.
Kissing / cuddling etc is physical cheating where emotional cheating is sharing a emotional connection being able to confide and share with someone when you cannot with a partner...
If he asked about the relationship status BEFORE going and you even hinted it may be a breaking point maybe he felt why not make-out with someone... thinking you may be on a break. It was a bad choice he made and he cannot take it back ... but moving on is about your feelings/ and both of your commitments from here on.
