Just need to vent!
Hi everyone. So I’ve been with my kids dad since 2013. Got engaged in 2021. But shortly after that me and my kids moved out do to him having an outside child. Since then he’s been back and forth begging wanting his family back. These last few months we’ve been talking doing good. I pull up to his house after an argument only to find another woman at his house. He put on a scene told me to leave before he calls the police. Since then he hasn’t been talking to me at all. But has been spending time with her. I feel like I lost and wasn’t good enough
@creativeSail9952 First, let me just assure you that you are good enough! And, no, you did not lose! This man is literally showing you where you stand in his life. Anyone can say anything. Words don't matter without actions to back it up. He wants his family back but yet still sees other women? That's disrespectful to you. Know your worth and know you deserve better than what he's given you. You are strong. Always remember that. Y'all have years of history together, but you've got to know your happiness matters. You deserve to be treated with respect, be loved, cared for, etc. You deserve someone who prioritizes you and the kids and truly values you. You are worth all of this and more. Sorry you're hurting and have to go through this. One day he'll come to his senses and see all the good in you he missed out on. Hang in there and keep on doing right by those kids. You got this! ♡☆
@creativeSail9952
That sounds incredibly painful...after everything you've shared and been through with him, being treated like that would hurt deeply. You are not "not enough"- you did not deserve to be put in that position :(
