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Leaving someone who left you

User Profile: kar0lkitsu
kar0lkitsu September 24th, 2025

When my ex boyfriend left me, it took me long time before I picked myself up again, I cried for months on end. Now, one year later, he wanted to come back. I rejected him, yet he does not respect my decision and keeps on making comments about our previous relationship. I see that I should let go so both of us can go seperate ways. Why does it make me so stressed to do so? I'm afraid I might hurt him, but then I see that he also left me before. It's a complicated feeling. I feel lost.

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User Profile: EnlightenedArtist
EnlightenedArtist September 26th, 2025

I am sorry that you feel lost now @kar0lkitsu ✨

May I kindly suggest that you think of you first? You mentioned that you don’t want to make him sad. But, you also said that he left you first… this made you really sad

i don’t know you, but I wouldn’t want you to be sad again… think of yourself first

Sending lots of good vibes✨