Long distance relationship
My ex and I had a very nice relationship despite the distance and we managed to live together for a year and with plans to live together again. Shortly after he returned to his country I began to notice many changes as if he don’t wanted to continue the relationship. We had a chance to see each other but he canceled. I wanted to have things clear if he didn't want to be with me anymore he should say it, but he always told me that he wanted to do his best for us, We were in that situation for a few months and I always hoped to see him until I couldn't take it anymore and it was added to family problems that prevent him from traveling now. I would like to fix things with him, but now he doesn't even answer me even though a couple of weeks ago he spoke to me as if he were sorry and wanting to communicate. I don't know what to think, I'm very disappointed in him and I just wish I could see him or have a clear conversation
Hiya @limeNectarine4350 welcome to the community! 🌞
I hear you on how disappointed and hurt you feel because of the inconsiderate and inconsistent behavior from your partner.
Long distance isn't easy as is, and even more difficult when there isn't a good or say, any, communication.
Being stuck in that confused loop of not knowing what exactly is going and how the other person is feeling because they aren't even willing to communicate it definitely is a complicated situation to be in, I understand how restless it may make you feel leaving you to wonder for all the what-ifs and what-nexts? when there's lack of clear anything!
You do deserve clarity and someone who owns up, to whatever is going on.
Sadly there's not much to do except for waiting to hear back from them, I guess? 😅 since none of us are mind readers (would be cool, right?) I do hope y'all can have a proper conversation around what is happening and help make things clearer in moving forward.
Till then, please remember you deserve to have a safe space to share about how you feel and I'm so proud of you for reaching out in 7 cups!💛
Thank you so much for your words. I definitely don't have much else to do, I hope the day comes when I can communicate with him but in the event that it doesn't happen I'm looking for the tools that will help me get ahead. Being able to receive answers like this helps me since I usually feel very lonely. Thank you very much again
@limeNectarine4350
I am soooo proud of youuu for not limiting yourself and for trying to engage in some self-care as you look for tools to manage and feel better. It is super duper important to show up for ourselves and give us the love and care we deserve. You go, beautiful hooman!🤗
And yes of course, you'll always have this community to support and cheer for you!💛
