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User Profile: Abbyiscrabby
Abbyiscrabby August 10th, 2025

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we’re 16 years old and i just went through a bad episode of ROCD, and am now slowly recovering, it’s still hard to feel connection and it’s foggy but i blame ROCD. I’m starting to feel in love again, and remembering why i fell for him in the first place. But now i’m starting to get scared of long term with him. He’s all i ever wanted and more, and treats me so well, and i used to always picture a future with us. But after this episode of OCD it scares me, and i’m questioning if i want this long term. And that scares me.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 11th, 2025

@Abbyiscrabby

🥺

Im sorry you went through so much.

That's tough.

I'm glad your in a better place.

Trust your feelings.

Go with your heart.

Love is rare and precious.

You are young and we all worry that it won't work out, but what if it does?

💕💜

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User Profile: Abbyiscrabby
Abbyiscrabby OP August 11th, 2025

Amanda,

Do you think we have a chance?

Am i just in denial of him not being my person?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 11th, 2025

@Abbyiscrabby

Questioning is OK ...In fact it is good. 

Holding on to someone because at one time you thought this was forever IMO is more often then not a mistake.  You both are very young and believe it or not at some point down the road you may see your life totally different and want something and sometimes someone else.