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User Profile: quietNorth21
quietNorth21 November 2nd, 2024

I just don't know what I'm supposed to do. My partner will from time to time tell me how they find a certain actor attractive a little overly I feel at times and it keeps making me uncomfortable. I've told them this before and they have since then lessened it but when it does still happen I can't help but feel uncomfortable yet again. Adding the fact they rarely complement me compare to actors or just people on social media it makes me feel hurt. I just need advice on what to do? I don't feel like il ever not be uncomfortable by it

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 November 3rd, 2024

@quietNorth21

I honestly do not think it is in any way of a reflection on you... People may notice a celebrity in reality often while in movies/ interviews and definitely in pictures they are fake super made up and few know whom they are.  Will he EVER really meet this person on a one on one basis ?   probably not ....so how is a good photo a threat? 

I wish people would really understand looks are a smaller piece of the puzzle in a relationship then many think... people will look more attractive when you know them and all they are in personalities etc. People do not know celebrities only know how they are presented by publicists. 

If you know your are worth it and you are the whole picture. no looking at celebrities will ever bother you.