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Lovebombing?

User Profile: Jehlly
Jehlly July 21st, 2024

This guy started writing to me 3 weeks ago. From the beginning he was intent on having a relationship I was joking about it because we didn't even know each other's faces. It's not from my same country. He seems like a real person, it seems that he has never actually been in relationships and I think he doesn't lie but I don't count on it. At the same time it's a bit insecure. I like him a lot honestly. Sometimes there are ups and downs (simply sometimes we write in a "colder" way other times it seems that we love each other very much). I've never felt certain feelings in 19 since l've never been in a relationship. He seems like a person who cares about me..I'm

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver July 22nd, 2024

@Jehlly It feels like you are experiencing some uncertainty in this new online connection due to the lack of face-to-face interaction and past experiences making you cautious. How do these mixed signals impact your feelings?


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User Profile: Jehlly
Jehlly OP July 22nd, 2024

We also know each other faces, he’s kinda insecure though. Anyway. I think I actually love him a lot. He makes clear that the things he tells me are real. Yk he kinda wants to make sure that I don’t think that all the things he says are like “I’m just sayin” but that they are true. I know his voice he knows mine, he also wanted to voice call I’m kinda shy (a lot) but I think I will eventually. Idk like all the compliments and sweet things he tells me just make me uncertain

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