Messy husband
energeticOak3651
July 23rd, 2023
My husband wont help with cleaning and he is so messy , i clean one day the next day i start all over again! What can i do ?? Its affecting the relationship ! And its making me so depressed specially that i work for long hrs !
toughTiger6481
July 23rd, 2023
@energeticOak3651
It is very aggravating when someone does not help or in my case does it half way....... it is hard to encourage them to care enough to do things the way we would but doing both working and all the house hold chores IMO is a recipe for fights and resentment.
have you spoken to him not when angry but at a time you are both in a neutral mood? this is where many use the "I feel" statements like i feel we are both very busy and my having a bigger portion of cleaning messes over and over.
