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User Profile: TexasThunder767
TexasThunder767 May 18th, 2025

I feel like I’m single even though I’m married. I always have to do everything. I give her all my love and support and I feel like I never get the same in return. I feel like my wife just uses me. I feel like a burden and I can’t win for losing.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 20th, 2025

@TexasThunder767

You are not alone.... I have a spouse like that too.  i feel like i am alone in a marriage. I am tired of trying of fighting what it seems like they  could care less except losing the person who takes their cr@p.

i am alone in a relationship being a roommate and working towards what?   sadly you are not alone. 

User Profile: zedspike18
zedspike18 May 23rd, 2025

I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Have you tried to talk to her? Maybe she doesn’t realize she’s doing it?

User Profile: Harley5117
Harley5117 May 23rd, 2025

I'm sorry to hear that your wife is like that, it must be hard for you. I know what it is like, my wife is disabled and just treats me like her full time carer. She is nice to everyone else, but very cheeky with me.

User Profile: Lovelyrose62
Lovelyrose62 May 23rd, 2025

@TexasThunder767 could you communicate her specific needs that aren't being met?