My ex
We dated 2 years ago and i fell for him,we broke up and then we started talking again but after some time i found out he was talking with my friend and i didn't knew.After i completly stopped talking with both of them i found out they were together,now they broke up but even though im over him i still find myself thinking about him and missing him.
Why does this happen?Does this mean he still thinks about me or is that just a myth?
@bekind400
You are thinking of him and maybe want to think he is also thinking of you, but I do believe it is a myth. I think you may be thinking of what it would be like if the relationship worked the way you wanted it to. we often do not let go over what we pictured the relationship would be ... not what it was.
May be what you're missing is not him but the image of an ideal lover that you want to see through a person. Reflection of your own dream that you crave to see through other.
Don't fight your thoughts, simply observe them
@bekind400 Missing him is just a feeling. Has he come to your house yet, or are there any concrete signs that he'll come back? I know you loved him very much before. How have you changed now?
No,he doesn't give me any signs sadly.Now im more mature than i was then.