My husband left I'm so angry

My husband just left one night. Said he wanted to seperate. Got a new house. And moved out. I even gave him stuff to take to the new house but apparently it wasn't to his liking because he called me selfish. Like I gave him silverware but not enough because it was all dirty in the dishwasher. And I had washed his skillet I bought him and forgot to put that in there. Gave him $170 in food and he's complaining about the meat in our freezer wanting to take all that. Called me a narcissist and everything. It hurt. But lately he's been taking a lot of my stuff and things that came with the house when we moved in. (The landlords) Stuff I can't afford to replace that I need to keep this place running. Leaving me and my son high and dry. It's really hard not to build a resentment just like he has against me. He's so hot and cold. It messes with my heart. I'm just so hurt. It's like he calls these behaviors out then acts the same behaviors but can't see it at all. I'm just exhausted from it all. Please no rude comments. I just want to get it off my chest. Been through a lot this past week. Needed to talk.