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My relationship is failing and I'm scared

User Profile: ambitiousJet302
ambitiousJet302 March 7th
My boyfriend and I are on a break. I know its better than just staying where we are, arguing constantly, but I'm so scared. I'm scared he'll realize how much of a burden I am and that he doesn't love me. I'm so scared he's going to leave me. I don't think I can keep going here if we break up, I'll have no one left and nowhere to go.

I don't know how I can make him love me again. I don't know how I'll move on if he doesn't. I don't think I could just go back to being friends, he's been so important and was the first person I've been intimate with and there's so much I can't just throw away and forget.

I'm so lonely here. I don't have family, I don't have friends. I'm trying so hard to get better and fix myself but I'm only getting worse. I just want to be lovable and even the one person who's promised to be here is giving up on me.

I'm so tired and scared and lonely.
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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain March 7th

Self improvement can take time but at least you're trying that's a good thing. Perhaps you can work on your hobbies and interests in the meantime, that will make the days go faster.

Is there anything that you enjoy doing?

User Profile: buddyforneedy
buddyforneedy March 7th

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buddyforneedy March 7th

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User Profile: g777ang
g777ang March 9th

I'm going through the same thing, I'm not here to tell that it's gonna be okay and I'm here to "listen" well it you need to talk to me ofc I'll listen to you as a friend but I give advices off of my experience, i can imagine how stressful your situation is and how scared you are, as I noticed you mentioned the reason why this is happening is bc your a burden, I think while your taking the space and the on the break do good things for yourself, shower and journal eat clean, learn, go to the gym, watch a sunset without filming it, sit with your thoughts and acknowledge them, observe your feelings, sleep well 8 hours. I'm going through the same thing, I'm so dependent on my partner that it's become draining for her to handle me, she gets the ick from me wanting attention bc of how much I was dependent on her with my problems and emotions I expected her to fix me, even if I didn't realize it and it was an inner thought that I didn't read out loud, I've never really shared this much so I hope you take this into consideration if you need anything please don't hesitate to text me I'll be here good luck ❤️