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Need long distance advice

User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 December 1st, 2024

Have been dating in long distance for like two years and now i feel like he’s pushing me away i feel like idk know him anymore idk what to do and have not met in person

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User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone December 2nd, 2024

@Kendallj28 hi there! thank you for sharing this with us.

as someone who's been mostly in long distance relationships, i've found that clear communication and regular communication helps the most because it can help both parties be on the same page and clear up misunderstandings. have you and your partner tried to talk about it more to understand what's going on?

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User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 OP December 2nd, 2024

Yeah but I don’t think we will see each other in person

User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 OP December 2nd, 2024

Yes we talked about it before but now we don’t talk much anymore

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 2nd, 2024

@Kendallj28

L D is often short lived we can talk and talk in text or email or whatever communication but eventually if you will not be meeting in person it is hard to maintain that fun getting to know you vibe.  It can be work to keep up conversation. 

Eventually you may want a real interaction and we really do not know what they are doing with the rest of their lives. 

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User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 OP December 2nd, 2024

Yeah I told him I would go to him since there is no way he’s applying for visa

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