Need some advice

. I met a guy through a dating app, and we’ve been seeing each other for about 1–1.5 weeks. We’ve gone on a couple of dates and have been actively pursuing each other, but we haven’t had any conversation around commitment or exclusivity yet.

After we got a little physically intimate, I told him that I’m not really a hookup person and that I generally prefer to take things more seriously when I’m involved with someone. In response, he said that emotional commitment takes time for him and that he wants to know me better as a person before getting there.

A few days later, he told me that he had made out with another girl. He clarified that it was purely physical and that he didn’t feel any emotional connection with her. While I appreciate that he was honest about it, I still find the situation unsettling. I personally struggle to understand how someone can actively pursue one person while also being physically involved with someone else at the same time.

We are still talking and continuing to see each other, but the whole situation makes me feel confused and somewhat foolish. Part of me wonders if I should value his honesty and give things time, while another part of me feels like this may already be too messy for what I’m looking for emotionally.

He has reassured me that once he commits to someone, there won’t be any third person involved. I’m just unsure whether I should continue seeing where this goes or walk away before I get more emotionally invested.