Need some closure help
There's a guy I know who i'd like to get closure with. The reason id like to get closure is because I want to know why he was sort of shutting me out, never telling me how he felt about us and trying so hard to protect my feelings I never knew he secretly hated me.
I admit it was my fault at times, and I understand that I was a bit too much for him. I reay do want to apologize to him and try and sort something out.
@BlueGreenBlueGreen
You deserve better than to get closure from someone who secretly hated you, you don't owe him a conversation or an explanation.
Your closure could be you allowing yourself to heal 🧡

@BlueGreenBlueGreen
I agree with Amanda you will feel batter and heal when you let go. We seldom if ever get closure in anything... I think it is a concept to many people chase. if you had a conversation, you may truly want to apologize for something you feel you did but many times we only get what they think we want to hear not truth out of the other person.