Need to vent
Hello everyone,
I’m here today because I need to vent. I just returned two days ago from a two-week vacation, and now I’m back to simply coexisting with my husband of 20 years. During the trip, I was able to clear my mind and made the decision to start prioritizing myself and I’ve been doing that.
But truthfully, I’m feeling really lonely. I miss being held. For the past month and a half, there’s been no emotional or physical connection between us.
I think I just needed to get this out, so I don’t end up doing something I’ll regret like trying to get his attention in ways that aren’t healthy for me.
Thanks for listening.
@Novalee07
i am sorry you are dealing with that. being lonely in a relationship really is the worst.
if you are not communicating and i mean more then talking but really absorbing what each other is saying perhaps suggest counseling. i will tell you the urge to do something will get stronger I have been there.
Thank you for replying. Yes, I have an upcoming therapy appointment. In the meantime I’m leaning on family, lots of YouTube videos on self care, and of course 7cups which has such amazing support groups.
